There are times that we feels like trying something new or different but we are unable to do so. There are also times that we feels like letting go and move on but we got stuck at the same place again and again. It's like we kept walking around and around without us realizing it.
So what's stopping us anyway?
What's holding us anyway?
Have we ever think about the situation when we are in school? When the teacher ask us to solve a problem on the blackboard? Standing there in front the board, our brain became blank and our eyes became blur. We stood stiffed for a very long time. We felt lousy and helpless. It could be a simple problem but we just can't see it. And it happened differently the other way round if it's a friend that had been called by the teacher to solve the problem. Sitting there from our place we can see the answer of the problem. All seems related and easy.
I guess the best way to solve our problem is either trying to see it from a different view at least. Trying to imagine that the problem belongs to someone else and it's like we are seeing it from a distance. Trying to feels from a different shoes or a birds eye view. I guess it could be simpler to understand instead of being blank or blur.
Another way is asking a reliable friend for an opinion but at that point we must be able and ready to hear or accept what they are going to say. The decision still ours but the ability to hear another persons point of view or advice without raising our fortress is not an easy work. But it helps if we keep our mind and heart open. It's not an easy situation but it do helps us a lot. It's time saving and also helps us from headache and heartache. Sometimes we never thought about the time and pain that we wasted due to our own ignorance and stupidity. Also about our arrogance and so called high standard. No wonder we said the world is not an easy place to live in and we can't cope with it.
We never realized that the earth is the only planet that we got and the only place that accepted us the way we are.
So, don't stuck your own self in your self.
